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Beautiful! So many snapshots parallel to our family’s stories. Our 26 yr old daughter’s medical chart still lists “adopted” as a diagnosed condition. We met our son’s birth mom at a McDonald’s. Now he’s 29 and they’re Facebook friends. I still need to remember I’m a good enough mom. Very grateful to their birth moms.

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I love the heart and happiness you’ve conjured here, around the core of melancholy that is Martha’s hard decision.

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thanks Rona, it’s so important to do so, for the sake of baby, and wouldn’t be possible without the generosity and goodwill of Martha

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This was such generous, beautiful writing. Thank you for sharing it.

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Thank you, Sarah

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I love that it's snapshots, vignettes, and the way that they're sequenced is perfect. Some bitter, some sweet. Just right! Thank you for writing and sharing.

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Thanks Tom, sequencing is tricky but I find that it can also be kind of fun!

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Wonderful.

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9 hrs ago·edited 9 hrs agoLiked by Anna Schott

I’m crying of joy and anger, but mostly joy. Isn’t it great when you realise that Mother’s Day is every day? Happy Mother’s Day Anna.

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Thanks Ana. It is great!

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Beautiful.

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Yeah, that's the real stuff. Life and writing.

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What a beautiful recounting of a life (actually "lives") changing event.

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11 hrs agoLiked by Anna Schott

loved reading this. Manny is a lucky guy to have all of you.

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We are all so lucky. Thanks Deirdre

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Yes I think that’s why I loved reading this so much, it’s the way it was meant to happen.

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11 hrs agoLiked by Anna Schott

oh man, this one is killer. I'm so happy for all of you. That kid of yours is a wonder. And so are you.

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Thank you so much Mary.

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